Self-reliance for a Sikh is a path of continuous self-determination affecting the moral, spiritual, and mental being. In Sikhism, it is a goal for every individual to attain the self-control and mind-control to be self-reliant. Maslow’s humanistic theory of personality corresponds to the Sikh’s goal to be self-reliant. In Sikhism and self-actualization one must have concentration, self-awareness, judgment, self-development, and honesty.
To be self-reliant, a person must believe he or she is responsible for his or her own actions, thoughts, and emotions. Sikhs believe in karma “..Man has to reap the fruits of his action. He is free to act and his karma will determine his future, Why blame others, it is our own doings that lead us astray”. Unlike other religions where people are able to commit sins and then be forgiven by God, the Sikhs do not—they must live with their actions and life.
Being responsible for oneself is one issue; controlling one’s actions is yet another, It takes a strong will and self-discipline. The teachings of Guru Nanak explain that all souls are the same, but given to differ according to an individual’s choices and actions. The thoughts, words, and deeds of an individual leave an impression on the mind. When these thoughts, words and deeds are repeated, they become impressed in the mind and turn into habits. It is the habits that are the nature of the person’s mind. Consequently, the mental nature changes day to day according to the person’s actions. If a Sikh can control his actions, he can control his mind. If he can control his mind he can control his emotions and, therefore, certain undesirable feelings can be eliminated. According to Sikhism, God created five evils lust, anger, greed, attachment and pride. “They one of the nectar, but the e.g.-centered care not and cry at the end.” It is mind-control which enables the Sikh to overcome these evils. Character-building (self-discipline) and salvation are, therefore, interrelated. “They rob one of the nectar, but the ego-centered care not and cry at the end.” It is mind-control which enables the Sikh to overcome these evils. Character building (self-discipline) and salvations are, therefore, interrelated.
Article extracted from this publication >> July 12, 1991
